no not fine as in 'YOUR COMPLETElY NORMAL AND HAVE NO PROBLEMS!'' I meant it more like ''its ok we wont judge anything about you or what your feeling'' Im sorry for the confusion-
I get that you're trying to help, and it's great that you are, but one thing I'd recommend when someone is in this position to not say "you're fine". Sorry, I'm not trying to start a fight, or be petty or something, just in most cases I've seen "you're fine" only gets the person more worked up and stressed