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manipulation

20 Nov 2025 21:53 by random_dude12
so my mom and dad are breaking up, but that's not new. the new stuff is my mom gulit tripping me and manipulating me using her power to stay with her even though I want to go with my dad. what mom should manipulate their child just to keep them as a practical slave? I do all the work when shes here. she only does her laundry and only takes care of herself. hell it's probably better staying alone with my brother WHO IS AUTISTIC and my dog. I'm the primary caretaker of my brother, my dog (that I never asked for) and hell the entire house. shes not my mother anymore. I can't call her that. mom's don't manipulate their children into staying with them after a divorce. she keeps threatening to take the divorce to court and force me into her custody. I hope those are all lies. I hate her. and I'm sure you guys understand why. if something bad happens between me and her I'll probably send another update. and my dad is perfectly fine. he cares for me, makes me food when I ask for it, hell even tucks me in for bedtime (which considering my age is kinda rare) I love my dad, my mom though. I hate her and I genuinely think shes a lost cause.
❄ WoliWilo ❄ - 21 Nov 2025 05:15
interactions with you are difficult for me because reflecting on what you say is literally exactly like my own self reflection which is not fun ahahhahhahahha
please don't take that as your fault bc if it is either of ours it is mine and im sorry
i wish i could be a good friend im sorry i sorry i ok just n nnndnjdnm nc just tell your dad ok please i genuinely think that's the only way you're gonna get anywhere at this point she is terrible
please do keep us updated please
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❄ WoliWilo ❄ - 21 Nov 2025 05:14
this is terrifyingly relatable... not to quite the extent as your situation, but it has put some things into perspective...
have you told your dad about your feelings about all this? does he know how manipulative she's being? he does sound like a great dad, so maybe he'll understand and something can be done? i dont know???? you deserve better though ughfnjjdj
ok good luck please endure to the best of your ability you are a really good and interesting person and i honestly wish i could be more like you in so many ways and i dont even know
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🩡AKITA ROMERO🩷 - 21 Nov 2025 03:59
Oh storms. .. I'm sorry.....
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my mother can be like that too sometimes. they divorced few years back and sometimes i feel like she guilt trips me, but i don't hate her for it, she wants me to be stronger in her own ways. i may not understand it or respect it but its fine. now, maybe talk to her about this and if she remains the same then i understand hating her. if you already tried though, then its best to ignore her and stay with your father
she sounds pretty bad but does she at least take some care of you? or does she completely neglect you
im sorry if im sounding rude and unsympathetic but the words you were expressing were... unpleasant. im genuinely trying to help please be aware of that.
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