should i tell the person i did something i promised them i wouldnt do?
My deilema: They didnt react well the first time i did it years ago and they didnt react well when a few months ago it caused me to be gone for a bit and they didnt react well when i told them i did it a few weeks before the months ago. and they havent forgiven me for the other times i hurt myself
i mean cuz my dad was also hospitilized for a suicide attempt so i dont get it from him. but it wasnt scratches i did cut myself but they are already healing so its not that bad
WAIT WTH- HUH??? Okay, the FIRST THING ABOUT DEPRESSION: DO NOT ISOLATE A PERSON FURTHER. Secondly. That's an insane statement, sounds like something my "mental health isn't real" family would say. Why th would they say that about your friends?! Ok, even if your friends also deal with depression, they are not that- and they also would actually understand what's going on. Also, yet again, isolation of a person when they're already having a hard time...Aghhh my therapist would be going insane rn- that's....Wth.
I'm sorry, but it seems your parents have NO concept of what depression is, what it does, and certainly not how to deal with it. Lord, that's insane. Praying for you with that, that sucks... Hopefully things do calm down- I just- I can't even with that.Reply to 🩵AKITA ROMERO🩷:
That's- oh geez- the program might be good, but the rest??? Oh my- and it's still not healthy, but all that over scratches? That's a bit...well, they haven't handled that situation well. Yes, it's still serious, but they seem to be WAY overreacting
First off, askimg about it EVERY TIME YOU SEE THEM is INSANE. Not only is it annoying but I'd imagine it really makes things worse...like if someone asked a person who was losing their hearing "Is your hearing getting worse?" No one wants that to be asked so often. The pictures make sense, but it'd be a bit weird... especially when you're ashamed of them-
sorry wait the other stuff is also a big deal but this just enrages me
like i can *************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************ind of mad about that
your parents are approaching the situation in almost the worst possible way they're being idiots
also i am now in a program to get better for my depression. i feel insecure showing my arms now because if i do i put bandaids on it, but i feel that draws attention to it, but if i dont have the bandaids on then i feel that people will see and. i dont want them to. and my mom said that she took a picture of my arm to show my doctors to make sure i dont deepen them. that makes me feel bad about myself and weirds me out.
CONTEXT: I already told, but i said it was scratches. So the person i was wondering if i should tell was my mom because everytime i hurt/cut myself in the past she freaked out. this time when she found out she also freaked out and wouldnt talk to me to the point i started crying and was isokating myself in my room. how anyone found out was i went to the nurse during school for ice bc it was bugging me. then she told the counselor and called my parents. now everytime my parents see me they ask me: Oh did u cut yourself again. it makes me very annoyed and i wish i didnt tell them but then again im glad i did.