Romantic "hate" — that is, a relationship that has all the trappings of a romantic one, except that it is based on mutual hatred rather than mutual love. Two people in a caliginous relationship are "enemies" the way romantic lovers are "friends"; for instance, their behavior towards each other can be extremely vitriolic and hostile, and most of their interactions might be arguments and shouting matches

that is what a kismesis is, and if anyone's looking for one, I'm also looking for one. so just COME AT MEEE!!!