I'm a little worried about people perceiving me differently now but... I trust you guys enough! You all are very supportive and that's one of my favorite things about ths community! I hope that also applies here......
I'm non-binary and aroace. Some of you already know this, but that feels a bit off having to be selective about my words when anything related comes up... It's kind of embarrassing how I figured these out about myself lol- For a while myself and everyone around me saw me as a boy, but it didnt feel quite right when someone mentioned it. A few years ago, I was being silly and "pretended" my pronouns were they/them. it sort of- clicked- and it's what makes the most sense to me! (btw I'm really fine with any pronouns at all but they/them is prefered) Most of my "romantic" relationships with people have just been one way where the other person had a crush on me, and I sorta just- idk uhh- went with whatever happened... It was either that or someone spreading rumors that I had a crush on someone or vice-versa-
It's either that or I'm too indecisive to actually decide anything so my brain defaults to the most neutral stuff lol