Reply to WoliWilo:

honestly, probably shouldn't talk about this on the internet, but yeah, my mom and me have tried having a talk with him, he said no, so we pushed it off until a later time to ask again. My mom asks again and he threatens to break up with her, and take everything. i'm not very close with my siblings because they are mostly younger than me, and the one older one, acts like a baby. for my friends, they already hate him, and he don't care for it. he doesn't care what anyone thinks tbh, and I don't think ever will. this is the reason i'm trying to stay away from him as much as possible, and yet he tries to stop me from leaving. I don't talk to much people about it, because I don't want him to get into trouble, him having kids and my mom not being able to pay the bills, but it feels good to tell a couple people and get it off my chest.

Reply to Addy🌺:

honestly it made me tear up when you said "son" because he is super transphobic and I haven't told him I was trans yet for this reason, but it felt good to hear.

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i have, he thinks that he can control it though, thank god my mom lets me do stuff i want

Who the heck does your stepdad even think he is!? Maybe you could try talking to him to make him listen to the voice of reason? If you don't want to, or maybe he won't let you, or something else, try talking to your siblings about it? I imagine they might be closer to you. If they're in on it too, maybe try talking to other close family members? I'm sure your real life friends could have something to say about it! The more people are against him, the better! The best thing I can see for you to do here is to get support to make him understand his wrongdoings, or to get enough support to get away from him in a healthy way. I can't lie and say that you will indefinently get through this, but I hope you understand that we're all standing on your side, and hoping you can!

That's.. stupid. If he wants you to call him dad then you should be able to be called his kid- and if your siblings are laughing and having fun then how is that bullying? Also, if you're trying to get along, then how is that an issue?! I don't understand.. I'm sorry you have to deal with that though.

Reply to ꩇׁׅ݊ꪱׁׅᝯׁᨵׁׅ:

that's so stupid. he needs to calm down, he can't expect you to call him your real dad if he can't claim you to be his son. and whether those are your "real" siblings or not, you still deserve the right to play with them however you want and the right to not play with them.

Dude, if my parents did that, id tell them that i have a life and that its MY life

Wut?!?!

Reply to Addy🌺:

he did, but I'm his step child, while those are HIS kids. Whenever he talks about me at all he tells me to call him my actual dad, but he cant call me his kid.

he sounds like a karen, did he not grow up with siblings or smth? that's what we do with one another. and it's not your responsibility to play with your siblings, it should be a choice imo