So, recently, my bf has been very distant and i'm unsure why. I asked one of my friends about it and she said that the same thing is happening to her and she thinks her bf is losing feelings for her. And like, my bf apologized to me which makes me think he isn't but I can't help but think that maybe he is losing feelings. It wouldn't be the first time and probably won't be the last. I just feel like maybe i'm overthinking this. And that maybe all of my overthinking will cause him to leave me. I want to talk to him about it, but.. I feel like if I do, he'll overreact and then it will all become my fault. And, I tend to move on very quickly and so I feel like if he were to leave me and I find someone new, then it'll look like it was what I wanted all along. My bf is really sweet, he's always saying that he wants to marry me and he can see a future with me. I also asked my friend about this and her bf says the same things, her and I can't believe that they mean it tbh and we feel really bad about it. We try to imagine it but when we do, it always somehow ends in heartbreak. I also kinda think that he might have feelings for someone else. He's all of a sudden getting really close with his one friend and it's been like that since he started being distant. Sometimes I think of ending it, but it would hurt too much because I love him, like, A LOT! I feel really bad for my friend too, tho. Like, she doesn't deserve this at all and I feel like she had a good relationship, but maybe that was just at first. All she thinks about these days is death and heartbreak. Idk how to help her, she was doing great, but things are getting bad in her home life and she's really trying hard to hide it, but she feels like if she doesn't tell her bf then he'll get mad and overreact because she's been going to one of her guy friends instead of him. She can't stand the thought of losing him and it's killing her. Literally, like, she hasn't been eating breakfast or lunch for the past 3 weeks. She barely talks to me anymore and i'm starting to get scared. She keeps it all in because she doesn't want people to worry. She uses the excuse that she's just tired, but really it's WAY more than that. Idk how to talk to her about this, this has happened before too. She dated this one guy who loved her at first, but then he just didn't talk to her as much. He would give her hugs and kisses everyday, but then stopped. He barely even looked at her. I'm so scared that the same thing could happen again. She always says that this guy is different and he seems very different from what she normally goes for, but what if she's wrong. She cries about it every. Single. Night. I want to help but idk how. I told her she should talk to her bf, but she;s convinced he wants nothing to do with her rn.